Tuesday, April 26

soda or water?

this is a constant discussion in our household every time we go visit one of my most favorite salad bar restaurants...if you order water, get water!!!

here is how it always goes down:
i go up to order the usual...one salad bar please...and then they always ask, "would you like a drink with that?!"
this is where it gets tricky, as i look over at the wonderful selection of drinks (aka fountain diet coke and diet dr pepper...oh and did i mentioned they have crushed ice too!!!) and see the same cups for both water and soda. so, do i say "yes" and get my drink or say "no, just water" but i get really get a soda.

according to my ever so honest better half, it is crime to order water and get a soda.
really?!.. how many people do you think really order water and gets water? 
his argument back is if they didnt care what you got, they would never ask you if you would like a drink.
i mean honestly, its not a huge crime like where they will lock you up if you get soda when you order water...but the good ole boy hubby is afraid i am going to be a bad influence on our lil one and teach him that its ok to take things from places. 
i mean come on...its like 2 dollars and ion top of that-they have the exact same cups for water and soda that are so strategically placed by the fountain machines...its like they are asking for this to happen every time.

so, this past weekend, we decide to visit this establishment and of course after i order, i am faced with that question i dread every time "would you like a drink?".
i look over at the selection, then the hubby, and then think do i really want to have this discussion again...so, i say "no" and order water which i really did want.
but, as i get up there, the diet coke with crushed ice was calling my name, and since my better half was eating his chili and watching the lil guy, i make my move!
i got the diet coke!!!

so, i go back and sit quietly at the table, start a convo and begin eating and acting like nothing is going on.
and then, thats when he looks at me and says "babe...really?!?"  i dont even have to ask "what", i already know he is pissed and says you know i hate it when you do that.
i explained that i just couldnt resist and i also changed my mind when i got up there.
then the fun convo begins...
is this what you want to teach our son? why cant you just pay for the drink? they dont owe you the drink just because you order food. do you go into the gas station and just take candy because you got gas? 
yes...the convo is the same every time.

after i lose the discussion AGAIN, his next response is "well, you need to up there and pay for it."
um...are you serious?!?
yep, he was not joking (dead serious). he really wanted me to go up and pay for the drink i took and explain to the cashier (who could really care less- in my opinion) that i changed my mind and would like to pay for the soda i took.

the dinner had ended and it was time for me to go and pay and of course i refuse to do so because i think its stupid and  i promise not to do it again.
the nice guy that he is, goes and pays.

ok...so lets be honest...how many people really do this? order water and get something else...is it really that big of a deal?
apparently, it is and next time i think i need to poll the other guests there to see if they do it too.
if so...favorite salad bad place- please get rid of the cups at the fountains and then make them a different color, so stealers like me are not torn between water and amazingly good soda!!!!

Friday, April 22

30...not so bad


one full day down, and i have to say 30 aint so bad.
besides feeling weird saying that i am 30 and my expired license, i really dont feel like i am 30.
but, what does 30 even feel like?! old...grownup...wrinkly...achey...fun...the same...im not quite sure yet.
maybe it takes a few days for that feeling to come, but overrall, things seem pretty darn great to take that big turn from the 2's to the 3's.

i was blessed to have spent the day with my most favorite people ever, received AHmazing gifts (huge perk of turning 30- you get GREAT gifts), a perfectly overdressed and relaxing dinner with the hubby (fit into a great pair of jeans that made me feel skinny...well slimmer), the most delicious cookie cake with the best icing (no more ice cream cake for this girl) and got 8 hours of sleep thanks to my sleep baby and mimi (now it was not 8 straight...but 2 sets of 2's and a 4hr stretch....ahh, so nice...its the little things these days).

life is good...30 aint to shabby either!!!

Wednesday, April 20

my hiatus

ok- so i guess i took a bit of a hiatus from my new project.  i know, way to start something and just ditch it! dont get me wrong, i have been thinking about blogging alot... but life has taken a little bit of a busy turn over the past few weeks (aka...A BABY).  but, i am back and ready to blog;)


as i return, i am faced with a huge milestone...the big 30!!!  yep, thats right- today is officially my last day in my 20s. tomorrow i will begin a new decade of memories and adventures.  exciting, yet scary.

looking back over the past 29 years, i cant believe that i have been able to experience so many memorable and amazing things with some of the most bestest people in the world.  i have been thinking alot today about how could the next 29 years even come close to the past 29 years?!?! could life get any better than getting married to your best friend, graduating college, growing up with the best little sister ever, moving to place where your life really began, yearly family vacations, having your first baby, meeting new friends, summertime swimming in the backyard, getting my first job...the list just keeps going and going. so, is it really possible?!?

all i know is that i am looking forward to seeing what my future holds and cherishing every memory and adventure that i have had up until today.  life has been great...i have been blessed with the best family and friends a girl could ask for. to you all...thank you for making these 29 years absolutley incredible and unforgettable!

30 you may be a very scary number, but im ready for you...so bring it on!!!